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I am 19 years old and I am in a relationship with someone who is 23 years older than me. i dont think i would be pleased for them, a 20 year old dating a 36 year old, no. nothing against u, but think about it, some woman, its so dangerouse for them to have kids at 50, an this young lad is only in his Would like a 30 year old woman date a 19 or 20 year old guy. I figure im kinda mature for my age. The girls my age wanna just party and drink all the time and I guess they consider me boring and they dont want long term relationships. I didnt say marriage I just said nothing 2 weeks long like my last. Hey all I am 31 years old, I had been dating a 21 year old for a few months, at first he and I were friends(I had an immediate connection with him) for like 6 months, then I broke up with the Although it can work, a woman in her 30's is at a much different stage in life than that of a man that is in his early 20's.
How would you in general feel about this? This is a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly of how society would see this situation. My parents were 30 and 20 when they got married. If they're both mature adults, I don't think anything of it. He's 30, she's 19, everybody's legal so it's all good. Im 41 my gf is We met 9 years ago.
Shes a stunner Im just lucky.
Sure, you can believe that at 30 you will become more cultured, more distinguished, more financially 'stable' etc. The 30 yo is the doctor. Most women like men who are between 1 and 3 years older than they are for dating and marriage. The red flags are there, listen to them! I was 22 when I met my thenyear-old boyfriend, now my husband.
I'd personally be against it, but that's just me. The age gap is pretty big, a 30 year old dating a teenager does not compute in my brain.
Permanently banned by power tripping mods lol this forum is trash. I don't have an issue with it, I could understand the concern a father might have in that scenario thinking the older man might be taking advantage of someone young and naive but you can't control your kids life when they're an adult. If it's consensual I think it's totally ok. Strangers wouldn't even know from looks As with any situation where the potential for manipulation or coercion exist though, I'd say it has to be decided on a couple-by-couple basis.
Most large age gap couples I know are no more prone to such power issues than anyone else - it seems everyone only thinks of the "innocent 18 year old girl and the drug-using 30 year old man who served time for rape".
Look it up for yourself and correct your ignorance. What will they think of me especially being a muslim woman. MissyManny Emu Egg Joined: My skin is still smooth and I make love like a young man but n minute man. All women care about money to some degree.
Oh, and those belonging to some conservative religions as that power play can be part and parcel of the belief system. And from those, people seem to enjoy projecting it onto every large-age-difference couple.
I'd never go for someone that young, but I guess whatever floats their boat, they're both legal and it's not like she's being forced into it. Why do you think it's weird? Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it. I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old and a 32 year old. I guess that's just cultural conditioning on my part though.
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I think it would say a lot of not so great things about the male in question. A 30 year old and 19 year old are in two completely different places in their lives. I don't care how mature the younger one is. I'd just think it was questionable. Doesn't bother me at all.
I feel like I couldn't date someone 10 years younger than me. I'd feel a bit awkward like I wasn't meant to be doing it, although I would date someone 10 years older than me, but then that would make them 43, so that's not really the same as an adult dating a teenager.
But if they really have a good connection and they're both happy I really don't see why it's a problem. Given that the man is identified as 'aspie' it's quite possible that he might be the less 'mature' and experienced partner. I don't care at all what other people do, but it's very much worth keeping in mind Im 31 Dating A 20 Year Old 30 year olds know what they want from life, know how to get it, or already have it, or the resources to get it.
They're just entering adult click and exploring how to be an adult in the most basic of ways.
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But if it works for some people, more power to them, and I hope they're happy. They just probably aren't. Username Password Remember Me. Post Reply New Topic. Previous click Next topic. MissyManny Emu Egg Joined: No Arab loves the desert. We love water and green trees, there is nothing in the desert.
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